Posts by Fed Up

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The hypocrites went back home! How lovely!

by Fed Up in

not long ago i posted expressing my annoyance that my husband's parents--as the good jehovah's witness elders that they are, went up north for a month-long with with my husband's disfellowshipped ex-wife!

they apparently were only there for a week and went back home!

not quite that month long visit that i heard was planned.... gee?

Fed Up

Oh, and I have to go find my husband some brand NEW parents over at the local retirement home now...

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The hypocrites went back home! How lovely!

by Fed Up in

not long ago i posted expressing my annoyance that my husband's parents--as the good jehovah's witness elders that they are, went up north for a month-long with with my husband's disfellowshipped ex-wife!

they apparently were only there for a week and went back home!

not quite that month long visit that i heard was planned.... gee?

Fed Up

Not long ago I posted expressing my annoyance that my husband's parents--as the GOOD Jehovah's Witness ELDERS that they are, went up north for a month-long with with my husband's DISFELLOWSHIPPED EX-WIFE!

They apparently were only there for a week and went back home! Not quite that MONTH long visit that I heard was planned...

Gee? I wonder if they, or their JW FRIENDS read this board? Or any of the MANY OTHER sites I posted my story about this on the internet? Or could it possibly have anything to do with the letter I wrote to his ex-wife's MOM, who is ALSO a PRACTICING JW, and doesn't especially appreciate their CONTINUING VERY CLOSE relationship with HER daughter? Or could it maybe have something to do with my visit to that same very SMALL town, where, carefully avoiding THEM, I told my story to EVERYONE at my former place of business, otherwise known as "gossip central"?

And how does my husband feel about this? OH! Well, THEY apparently didn't stand up for HIM when he was disfellowshipped by their congregation for DRINKING...but they felt BAD for his ex-wife when SHE got disfellowshipped for committing ADULTERY--on HIM--with his BEST FRIEND! Although he told me he would not want to be the one responsible, he told me he wouldn't exactly feel BAD if they now found THEMSELVES disfellowshipped!

Guess I'll never find out, because now, THEY'RE not talking to US!

OH! And I have NO DOUBT that THEY now think that I'M the one who did something WRONG! Oh, not them! I'm sure they justify their actions as being RIGHTEOUS, after all, THEY'RE Jehovah's Witnesses!

I have to go to laugh now...

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Finally!!! Run in with JWs...

by Tashawaa in

i've lived here for about 1 1/2 years and haven't seen a single jw.

i read all the posts where there have been run-ins, people called on, elders talked to, etc.

and couldn't hardly wait for my turn.

Fed Up

Lovely story,

I've always considered one of the biggest "perks" of having married my disfellowshipped JW husband is that since then, NO JWS have come knocking at our door!

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Crazy JW Superstitions...

by Confucious in

hey!

ok, we all know of this uncanny word play about not saying, "you were lucky," and not saying "bless you" after someone sneezes.

but this is a bizarre one i heard.

Fed Up

First, I have never been a Jehovah's Witness, and this really is a true story.

When we first moved into our house, there were some rather strange events, I kept feeling like someone was behind me, and seeing things move out of the corners of my eyes, felt "unseen" things brushing up against my legs, and my stepdaughter went to stay at a friends house one night when we were gone because she felt she wasn't alone in the house.

My husband is NO longer a witness, but he told me that according to THEIR religious beliefs, there are no such things as ghosts or spirits, but demons will "emulate" ghosts--humoring him, I asked how we could get rid of demons, and he said that according to JW belief, demons can not stand the name "Jehovah", and that they could be driven out by saying the name "Jehovah" 3 times out loud.

Then, one night, while still sleeping, my husband sat up in bed and started talking to someone who wasn't there, but he kept referring to a "red hat", and asking what he was doing in our bedroom. My stepdaughter then told me she had seen someone in a red hat also.

I really was freaked, and figured, what could it hurt? So after everyone had left the next day and I was alone in the house, I went into each room and said "Jehovah" loudly 3 times, and repeated the process in each room 3 times. I didn't tell my husband or stepdaughters I had done it either.

That ended the strange occurances...really, I'm not joking.

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A QUESTION FOR GUYS

by sandy in

why do some guys feel the need to have sex with their ex-girlfriends?

is this a common thing?

how many of you guys did or do this?.

Fed Up

Outoftheorg;

Yeah, it WOULD be great..if only one day I could convince him the JW religion is a cult, and get his JW parents (who still have this 'thing' for his EX) out of our lives for good......

...But I'm working on it!

Best of luck for the future to you and your wife!

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Whenever I think of death I think of sex

by logansrun in

be honest.

if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?

whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.

Fed Up

For those who know me i had the threat of impotence from bowel surgery(ulcerative colitis) thrown into my mix.I am a very complicated dynamic....
Listen up! When I finally had my first sexual experience with my first girlfriend at 46 y.o.I tell ya ,I could have gone through eternity without it.

Danny, your response absolutely FLOORED me.

I can understand that maybe as a result of your childhood illness, sex may not be that important to you.

I can't have children. But that doesn't mean I begrudge other people their happiness at finally discovering that they are pregnant, or get angry or resentful when they tell me how much joy they receive from their children. And I fully understand and appreciate how important their children are to them, and how much they love them, and couldn't imagine finding any meaning in life without them.

I love my husband and consider him my best friend too, but frankly, I'm not all that crazy about his obsession with guns, his hatred for the government, his campaign against "boom cars", or the baggage he brought with him from his JW upbringing, and all the CRAP I have to put up with from his family and ex-wife. If I just wanted a BEST FRIEND to live with, I've got BUNCHES of girlfriends and gay guy friends who don't get BORED when I talk about my career, who understand my competitive nature better, and enjoy shopping and gossiping just as much as I do!

My husband and I got together because of sexual attraction, and I'm sorry, but I honestly doubt that without it, we'd be together today.

I will try to understand that sex may not be that important to you, if you will try to understand that to many of us, well, it just is.

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Whenever I think of death I think of sex

by logansrun in

be honest.

if you were raised a jw didn't you fear that you would die during the great tribulation and never have sex for all eternity (since ressurrected people don't have sex, according to the wt)?

whenever i think of an early demise -- nuclear war, for instance -- my thoughts almost automatically turn to, "i want to have sex.

Fed Up

No offense, Logan, but judging by your posts here, I'd bet that thinking about the ozone layer reminds you of sex.

From Buffy the Vampire Slayer

"I'm seventeen. Looking at linoleum makes me want to have sex" [Zander]

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Are JW teaching the truth??? Do JW's know the truth???

by JDWEEE in

i recently became interested in the jw, when a classmate of mine in college, told me he was a jw, and how it changed his life.

i didnt know much about it, and asked him questions about his faith, and what it meant, and where it came from?

and i was surprised at the answers he gave me, and became very interested, and wanted to learn more.. after asking him questions off, and on, for a period of time, i decided to go to the web, and find out more.

Fed Up

There only seems to be a few differences in the way the WTBTS bible varies from other interpretations . The main difference is they attempted to restore the name jehovah to it's place in the bible and they refuted the scriptures that they believe were added in to support the trinity doctrine.

The problem is not the Jehovah Witness's TRANSLATION of the bible but their INTERPRETATION of the passages--and how those passages were meant to be applied and followed by Christians.

To me, the bible stands on its own and I can read it without the need for anyone else to "interprete" what it "means" for me. The bible does that just fine all by itself!

If you read the bible cover to cover and take it as a WHOLE, I think you will walk away with a much different impression.

I believe the Jehovah's Witnesses pick the passages of of their choosing, take them out of context and apply them in ways never intended--and by doing so, change the meaning, and make it "fit" what THEY want it to be. All organized religions do that.

This is why I believe NOT teaching the truth, nor do they know the truth,

However, in response to the poster who replied "No and no".

I think that's wrong, and that the correct answer is... Hell NO, and No F##king Way!

However,

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books to explain the bible

by zen nudist in

if the bible is really the word of god, and complete.... it seems to me that any organization, whether it be wt or christian research institute or a host of others..... by making books to explain" the bible to anyone, is basically saying that the all wise, all knowing god, the creator of all,.

really didn't write his book correctly, needs their help, is basically out of touch with humanity and wrote a book in code that.

needs human intervention to interpret..... the book itself claims to be complete and the only things necessary, and further claims that the spirit of god would be given to .

Fed Up

Oh, I happen to agree and have always maintained that for my own religious beliefs, the bible is the only book I need to read.

So that's what I do.

Funny, but I don't find it in the least bit confusing and have no need for anyone to clarify anything in it for me.

It stands alone on it's own just fine.

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satan fears

by cuddlepie in

this is a paragraph out of an email my mother sent me.

this doesnt help.

why cant they see that its this talk that attributed me to needing therapy in the first place!

Fed Up

Satan has got you where he wants, alone, coping with all this by yourself, did he give you what you wanted last time you did things "his" way.

Satan's not the one who's got you coping with all this by yourself--the Jehovah's Witnesses did! They're the ones who "disfellowshipped you, aren't they?

Refusing to accept responsibility for their actions, and blaming it on Satan, typical.